Two multi-inbound client bugs from issue #4834:
- Clearing a client's reverse tag never persisted: SyncInbound keeps a non-empty sticky guard on reverse (shared with node-sync/rename), so the cleared value never reached the canonical clients.reverse column the edit form reads. Update now writes that column authoritatively from the submitted client, matching how it already writes email/updated_at directly.
- Attaching a new inbound reset xtls-rprx-vision: Attach seeded its wire client from the canonical clients.flow column, which a non-flow inbound can zero during the preceding update. It now derives the flow from EffectiveFlow (the per-inbound flow_override), so flow-capable targets keep the flow and others stay empty.
Adds service tests for both paths and a guard test confirming node-snapshot sync still preserves a stored reverse tag.